This assumption that she need look for no more devotion now that her beauty had passed proceeded from the fact that she had never realized any love save love as passion. Such love, though it expends itself in generosity and thoughtfulness, though it give birth to visions and to great poetry, remains among the sharpest expressions of self-interest. Not until it has passed through a long servitude, through its own self-hatred, through mockery, through great doubts, can it take its place among the loyalties. Many who have spent a lifetime in it can tell us less of love than the child that lost a dog yesterday. . Thornton Wilder
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In Romeo and Juliet , Shakespeare shows us that love is a true emotion, but also a selfish one. In the book, he talks about how love can be self-centered because it is based on passion. However, in real life, love should not be based on passion but rather it should be based on devotion. The idea of love-based devotion comes from the idea that when in a relationship with someone, we do not care about ourselves but rather we care for our partners well-being. Loving someone should make you walk a long line through times of uncertainty and when you are in doubt or when things don't seem to go right. Love should not only be based on passion because when passion cools down eventually people will find something new to get passionate about.

Source: The Bridge Of San Luis Rey

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